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<blockquote data-quote="Suz" data-source="post: 184669" data-attributes="member: 29"><p>Steely, when I can't make an emotional decision because it is too complex/hurtful/bewildering I try to step back and make an intellectual one instead by writing a "Pro and Con" list. </p><p> </p><p>On a piece of paper, divide it in two columns---Pro on one column, Con on the other. Then list the pros of going and the cons of going. For me, it forces me to "think" things out rather than "feel" them. Pretty soon what I'm writing down tells me which decision to make and it's not necessarily the one with more reasons, it's usually the one I know I can best live with (or without).</p><p> </p><p>Hugs to you,</p><p>Suz</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Suz, post: 184669, member: 29"] Steely, when I can't make an emotional decision because it is too complex/hurtful/bewildering I try to step back and make an intellectual one instead by writing a "Pro and Con" list. On a piece of paper, divide it in two columns---Pro on one column, Con on the other. Then list the pros of going and the cons of going. For me, it forces me to "think" things out rather than "feel" them. Pretty soon what I'm writing down tells me which decision to make and it's not necessarily the one with more reasons, it's usually the one I know I can best live with (or without). Hugs to you, Suz [/QUOTE]
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