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<blockquote data-quote="Confused" data-source="post: 434471"><p>Hi amy1129,</p><p> Wow, sorry you had a bad day! I understand your situation and have been there! Still there! So, honestly, I have handled it both ways. I have dragged him to school upset or the Dr( for issues other than his acting out.). I was dragged out when I was a child to go to school, hated it,never forgot it,so why did I do this to my child? I didn't do tantrums all day when I was little, it was a problem with the teacher and I got a "phobia" of school and hated it since( although still off and on in college<img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite11" alt=":rolleyes:" title="Roll Eyes :rolleyes:" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":rolleyes:" />) .The thing is he throws tantrums off and on and him being in school, was a break for me! Also, because he missed many days of school due to illness/and his tantrum days, he was tarty, so every three tarty, was an absence. So missing over the limit he would of failed Pre-K! He likes school but just wanted to do what he wanted,when and how. I was lucky the school worked with me! But, I have learned unless its an emergencey, I would let him miss Tball too! He has missed practice and many swimming lessons because he didn't want to go for whatever reason, and last minutes say he wanted to go! We refused to take him, it would of been half over anyways. During his tantrums I do send my daughter to another room, but not always in a calm voice! It takes alot out of us and sometimes when things are built up or we just want them to be "somewhat behaved", we might make a wrong decision! I have been told to hold him down when he bangs his head/bites himself, not only does that make him madder,I get hurt! I do intervene when I need to when he's doing that or near our pets.Hope things are better for you today!</p><p>Confused</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Confused, post: 434471"] Hi amy1129, Wow, sorry you had a bad day! I understand your situation and have been there! Still there! So, honestly, I have handled it both ways. I have dragged him to school upset or the Dr( for issues other than his acting out.). I was dragged out when I was a child to go to school, hated it,never forgot it,so why did I do this to my child? I didn't do tantrums all day when I was little, it was a problem with the teacher and I got a "phobia" of school and hated it since( although still off and on in college:rolleye:) .The thing is he throws tantrums off and on and him being in school, was a break for me! Also, because he missed many days of school due to illness/and his tantrum days, he was tarty, so every three tarty, was an absence. So missing over the limit he would of failed Pre-K! He likes school but just wanted to do what he wanted,when and how. I was lucky the school worked with me! But, I have learned unless its an emergencey, I would let him miss Tball too! He has missed practice and many swimming lessons because he didn't want to go for whatever reason, and last minutes say he wanted to go! We refused to take him, it would of been half over anyways. During his tantrums I do send my daughter to another room, but not always in a calm voice! It takes alot out of us and sometimes when things are built up or we just want them to be "somewhat behaved", we might make a wrong decision! I have been told to hold him down when he bangs his head/bites himself, not only does that make him madder,I get hurt! I do intervene when I need to when he's doing that or near our pets.Hope things are better for you today! Confused [/QUOTE]
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