is the deal with difficult children and bath/shower? Why must every cleaning turn into a tantrum? She could have her choice of bath or shower. Simple, easy, clean, rinse, dry, put on jammies. It's not difficult. She used to love playing in the bath, now they're "stupid" and "useless". And I'm soaked as well. Not dealing with this tomorrow, so figured I'd go ahead and deal with the meltdown tonight. "I don't even love you anymore." Yeah, yeah... whatever. You're clean now anyway, deal with it.