My older son is doing swim team this summer, which is always great for him. He also has had issues with social behavior and this is really great for him to be out there with other kids, etc. I also have boy girl twins. My boy twin has issues with social behavior as well. They are six and they opened up the baby pool today. He, as usual, picked some kids to splash at and throw things at. He has a language delay as well, which my older son did not. I tried to explain that he can ask a child "do you want to play with me." He has difficulty getting the right words out for the social situation. He just started behavior therapy last week so that is in the works. Anyway, there was way too much going on so I took him home and my husband stayed with the other two. I cannot be with him all the time at the pool and I don't want him to feel badly about himself. He asked to go home, he got very sad. I have no idea what to do until he gets the social situation together.