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<blockquote data-quote="Shari" data-source="post: 380979" data-attributes="member: 1848"><p>If I didn't work, I could go to school and be his para. Its not my job and I don't want to be the one that does it, but it might be better than the alternatives I'm looking at right now.</p><p> </p><p>Sharon, my gut says it will happen again. It also says its going to break his heart to not go. Even if suddenly the paras and teachers get it and they don't make a major screw up, the likelihood that Wee will never have another meltdown at school is nil. And then we'll have juvie involved, and I can't think of anything about that is good - particularly cuffing him and hauling him off.</p><p> </p><p>I've offered to train them. I've offered to do anything I need to do to help. I offered to quit my job if they would provide insurance and nothing more! The problem remains that regardless of what forward progress is being made, there will be screwups and principal "wont have that behavior in her building"...I believe she will turn him in again.</p><p> </p><p>And I just can't see any way they can provide anything to me, at this point, that will make me trust that that won't happen. And that's what the issue boils down to. If I send my kid to school, he will end up in legal trouble. At the ripe old age of 8.</p><p> </p><p>All because they were too cheap to build on the success from the early intervention preschool when he started kindergarten and provide him a 1:1 after the EIP got his behaviors under control. Congrats, SD. I warned ya.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Shari, post: 380979, member: 1848"] If I didn't work, I could go to school and be his para. Its not my job and I don't want to be the one that does it, but it might be better than the alternatives I'm looking at right now. Sharon, my gut says it will happen again. It also says its going to break his heart to not go. Even if suddenly the paras and teachers get it and they don't make a major screw up, the likelihood that Wee will never have another meltdown at school is nil. And then we'll have juvie involved, and I can't think of anything about that is good - particularly cuffing him and hauling him off. I've offered to train them. I've offered to do anything I need to do to help. I offered to quit my job if they would provide insurance and nothing more! The problem remains that regardless of what forward progress is being made, there will be screwups and principal "wont have that behavior in her building"...I believe she will turn him in again. And I just can't see any way they can provide anything to me, at this point, that will make me trust that that won't happen. And that's what the issue boils down to. If I send my kid to school, he will end up in legal trouble. At the ripe old age of 8. All because they were too cheap to build on the success from the early intervention preschool when he started kindergarten and provide him a 1:1 after the EIP got his behaviors under control. Congrats, SD. I warned ya. [/QUOTE]
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