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<blockquote data-source="post: 4425"><p>sandieinsc</p><p>Member posted 12-01-1999 06:25 AM </p><p>--------------------------------------------------------------------------------</p><p></p><p>Greatings support team. Just an update here from S.C,. Daughter has progressed nicely with the drill sergeant method of "no backtalking, no disrespect" allowed. Also alot of positive reinforcement for her good behavior such as unexpected hugs complimenting her on "her new self", "how much happier our family without all the rebellion", "I knew you could do it", "we are sooo proud of you".. Sounds so simple but yet it's taken so long for her to realize it. She still has her moments, thats for sure, but they are less frequent and they don't last nearly as long as they used to. We have just returned from visiting husband's relatives in Knoxville, Morgan Ali has always been "perfect" for them, therefore making it hard for them to understand what we were going thru here at home. MA (initials for daughter) tried her rebellion a couple of times with us when family members were in another room, she quickly learned that no matter where we are, the "drill sergeant" technique does not change. I also threatened to get her grandmother (dear sweet woman) in the room so she could see MA display her disrespect to us. MA quickly would say "no".. All this just reinforces' the fact that MA CAN control her behavior, and we must continue to work hard to change her pattern she uses with us. </p><p>Thanks to all who have helped us use this technique, its working in our home.... </p><p></p><p>------------------</p><p>difficult child: Morgan Ali (female-9yo ) diagnosis'd with-ODD/ADHD. medications: ADDERAL & RITILIN..</p><p>ME: 43, ADHD/ODD-bipolar medications: elevil & valium</p><p>husband: 49. triple B personality, 14 years of my being blessed with him.</p><p></p><p>MA is finally showing signs of controlling her anger after I began the "drill sergeant technique" and LOTS of verbal positive reinforcement. I believe we started early enough in her life to make a change for the better..</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE=", post: 4425"] sandieinsc Member posted 12-01-1999 06:25 AM -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Greatings support team. Just an update here from S.C,. Daughter has progressed nicely with the drill sergeant method of "no backtalking, no disrespect" allowed. Also alot of positive reinforcement for her good behavior such as unexpected hugs complimenting her on "her new self", "how much happier our family without all the rebellion", "I knew you could do it", "we are sooo proud of you".. Sounds so simple but yet it's taken so long for her to realize it. She still has her moments, thats for sure, but they are less frequent and they don't last nearly as long as they used to. We have just returned from visiting husband's relatives in Knoxville, Morgan Ali has always been "perfect" for them, therefore making it hard for them to understand what we were going thru here at home. MA (initials for daughter) tried her rebellion a couple of times with us when family members were in another room, she quickly learned that no matter where we are, the "drill sergeant" technique does not change. I also threatened to get her grandmother (dear sweet woman) in the room so she could see MA display her disrespect to us. MA quickly would say "no".. All this just reinforces' the fact that MA CAN control her behavior, and we must continue to work hard to change her pattern she uses with us. Thanks to all who have helped us use this technique, its working in our home.... ------------------ difficult child: Morgan Ali (female-9yo ) diagnosis'd with-ODD/ADHD. medications: ADDERAL & RITILIN.. ME: 43, ADHD/ODD-bipolar medications: elevil & valium husband: 49. triple B personality, 14 years of my being blessed with him. MA is finally showing signs of controlling her anger after I began the "drill sergeant technique" and LOTS of verbal positive reinforcement. I believe we started early enough in her life to make a change for the better.. [/QUOTE]
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