I know, it sounds childish but it was a great revelation for me! lol
I obviously cannot control everything in my life so I thought what else can I do to make life easier on ME? Instead of battling and using ALL my energy on changing/fixing/understanding V, how about saving some time and energy on simple things that would lift me up?
Here is my little list:
- a small, easy to handle wheelbarrel to clean the chicken coop (yes, I'm tired of that big monster that we have. I am a small person)
- a nice looking fence for my chickens to roam around without escaping every morning (current fence is not 100% bullet proof...)
- a cheap (hehehe) reliable babysitter when husband and I need some time together
- one extra day of childcare for babygirl so I can do my work like I should and then not to have to worry about what needs to be done
- ease up on the healthy foods and allow some simple pizza nights
- attend church regularly to find a healthy balance within myself (and stop saying on Sunday morning "...maybe next week")
- an automatic vacuum cleaner! lol
- make a list of all the wonderful traits about V, Big boy and Baby girl and read every morning before everyone wakes up (frame it?)
If I could have all that for Xmas, that would most definetly relieve some stress
I obviously cannot control everything in my life so I thought what else can I do to make life easier on ME? Instead of battling and using ALL my energy on changing/fixing/understanding V, how about saving some time and energy on simple things that would lift me up?
Here is my little list:
- a small, easy to handle wheelbarrel to clean the chicken coop (yes, I'm tired of that big monster that we have. I am a small person)
- a nice looking fence for my chickens to roam around without escaping every morning (current fence is not 100% bullet proof...)
- a cheap (hehehe) reliable babysitter when husband and I need some time together
- one extra day of childcare for babygirl so I can do my work like I should and then not to have to worry about what needs to be done
- ease up on the healthy foods and allow some simple pizza nights
- attend church regularly to find a healthy balance within myself (and stop saying on Sunday morning "...maybe next week")
- an automatic vacuum cleaner! lol
- make a list of all the wonderful traits about V, Big boy and Baby girl and read every morning before everyone wakes up (frame it?)
If I could have all that for Xmas, that would most definetly relieve some stress