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<blockquote data-quote="Hound dog" data-source="post: 341821" data-attributes="member: 84"><p>For me it would depend on how much I wanted to re-connect with her. </p><p></p><p>If you're still worried about gossip flying over events that took place 30 years in your past.........then I'd said that's a pretty clear no.</p><p></p><p>Events that happen 30 yrs ago that are a big deal to you may be nothing to her now and she may spill what you don't want passed around by accident, not necessarily to hurt you.</p><p></p><p>But odds are she already has and those who wanted to listen did, and those who know and could care less cuz it's your business.......Secrets never stay secrets in small towns. The people with the secrets only like to pretend they do because it makes them feel better thinking no one know's their business. Sadly though, that's a big downer about small towns. Every one knows everyone's business, especially anything that would be seen as juicy gossip.</p><p></p><p>If you were uncomfortable enough to need a 2nd opinion......I'd say nope, you're not ready.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Hound dog, post: 341821, member: 84"] For me it would depend on how much I wanted to re-connect with her. If you're still worried about gossip flying over events that took place 30 years in your past.........then I'd said that's a pretty clear no. Events that happen 30 yrs ago that are a big deal to you may be nothing to her now and she may spill what you don't want passed around by accident, not necessarily to hurt you. But odds are she already has and those who wanted to listen did, and those who know and could care less cuz it's your business.......Secrets never stay secrets in small towns. The people with the secrets only like to pretend they do because it makes them feel better thinking no one know's their business. Sadly though, that's a big downer about small towns. Every one knows everyone's business, especially anything that would be seen as juicy gossip. If you were uncomfortable enough to need a 2nd opinion......I'd say nope, you're not ready. [/QUOTE]
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