My sister has a easy child daughter, age 18, finished school, working, lives at home. housing is very expensive where they are, no hope of easy child getting her own place. easy child has had the same boyfriend for over a year, my sister hates him, and he is a loser, 20, no job, no education, no ambition, lives at home. Last weekend easy child decided to go stay with the boyfriend (at his parent's farm) for a few days, however my sister thought she had moved out permantly. I spoke with easy child (my niece, hope everyone is not too confused here) who says she just wanted to get away for a few days and plans to go back home to live in the next couple of days, and would I talk to my sister about that, because my neice is sort of afraid of the reaction she is going to get. My sister has decided "if you play adult games, you get adult consequences" and won't let her move back home. I don't know how to approach the subject with my sister. I realize the girl did wrong, but I feel like my sister is way to harsh, and this is a NORMAL child who should be allowed to date and have NORMAL priveleges, however, she doesn't my siter is very controlling and I don't know why. I don't want to get a war going, but I feel so bad for my neice who is a very lovely girl.