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<blockquote data-quote="DDD" data-source="post: 237072" data-attributes="member: 35"><p>You are totally right about identifying which child gets what. It really should be distributed to all the adult kids long before the end. Never, ever, ever did I think there would be "issues" between the four siblings but boy was I wrong. I think "memories" and "love" get transferred mentally into special things. For example, my older sister gave my older brother Mom's diamond rings and told him "Mom told me she wanted your son to have these." Well........<img src="/community/styles/default/xenforo/smilies/redface.png" class="smilie" loading="lazy" alt=":redface:" title="redface :redface:" data-shortname=":redface:" />.......that <strong>had</strong> been true before that son got into drugs etc. The attorney required that I get the rings back from my brother who lived many states away so I could follow the list Mom left.</p><p> </p><p>Another sister and her husband took furniture out of the house with-o my knowledge. Yikes!</p><p> </p><p>I'm going to divy up stuff this year and make sure it is attached to the will. I know which of the six kids I want to receive what I consider to be special. Not particularly valuable, lol, but special in my eyes. DDD</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="DDD, post: 237072, member: 35"] You are totally right about identifying which child gets what. It really should be distributed to all the adult kids long before the end. Never, ever, ever did I think there would be "issues" between the four siblings but boy was I wrong. I think "memories" and "love" get transferred mentally into special things. For example, my older sister gave my older brother Mom's diamond rings and told him "Mom told me she wanted your son to have these." Well........:blushing:.......that [B]had[/B] been true before that son got into drugs etc. The attorney required that I get the rings back from my brother who lived many states away so I could follow the list Mom left. Another sister and her husband took furniture out of the house with-o my knowledge. Yikes! I'm going to divy up stuff this year and make sure it is attached to the will. I know which of the six kids I want to receive what I consider to be special. Not particularly valuable, lol, but special in my eyes. DDD [/QUOTE]
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