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<blockquote data-quote="Echolette" data-source="post: 622007" data-attributes="member: 17269"><p>It is all like peeling away the layers of an onion, isn't it? You get on part done and surprise! there is another. This has been a long struggle for me. I used to have a three day clock...if I didn't hear from him for three days I would fly into a panic and try to hunt him down. He knew that, and honestly was pretty sweet (if he was stable) about checking in with me one way or another every three days. Then I drifted from needing the check in, and the time frame grew from three to four or five days...facebook evidence that he was alive, anyone else spotting him, those were all good enough. Now...I don't know. I think I might be OK for a couple of weeks at at time. I also realized that even when I know I don't know...what he tells me is filtered, and sometimes so filtered it is an out and out lie...so what do I know? It is only the mirage of knowing. </p><p></p><p>You are OK today. You are so strong now, so alert in your commitment to self awareness and self care. We can only get stronger and more resilient as we practice these new ways of being.</p><p></p><p>I am glad you are my partner in this. </p><p></p><p>Echo</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Echolette, post: 622007, member: 17269"] It is all like peeling away the layers of an onion, isn't it? You get on part done and surprise! there is another. This has been a long struggle for me. I used to have a three day clock...if I didn't hear from him for three days I would fly into a panic and try to hunt him down. He knew that, and honestly was pretty sweet (if he was stable) about checking in with me one way or another every three days. Then I drifted from needing the check in, and the time frame grew from three to four or five days...facebook evidence that he was alive, anyone else spotting him, those were all good enough. Now...I don't know. I think I might be OK for a couple of weeks at at time. I also realized that even when I know I don't know...what he tells me is filtered, and sometimes so filtered it is an out and out lie...so what do I know? It is only the mirage of knowing. You are OK today. You are so strong now, so alert in your commitment to self awareness and self care. We can only get stronger and more resilient as we practice these new ways of being. I am glad you are my partner in this. Echo [/QUOTE]
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