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<blockquote data-quote="Terryforvols" data-source="post: 623778" data-attributes="member: 2127"><p>Oh and I totally believe difficult children self sabatoge, at least ours does. One step forward, 5 back. I believe hers is that she doesnt think she can do it, doesnt think she deserves it. One thing that we talked abt at our first FA mtg was that we did so much for her, she never had to learn on her own that she could do it. Any pain with a boyfriend, I couldnt stand it. Unfortunately, at this time I tried to fix it, rather than letting her experience the pain and deal with it. This was all occurring at the same time she began using, and she, behavior-wise, is still 16. I can still here her saying when I asked her back then-why? Because "I realized with Xanax that at school I could see ex-boyfriend with new girlfriend and it didn't hurt". I cant get past sometimes if only I had helped her thru her heartbreak instead of trying to fix it. Just another way I punish myself.</p><p></p><p>Sent using ConductDisorders mobile app</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Terryforvols, post: 623778, member: 2127"] Oh and I totally believe difficult children self sabatoge, at least ours does. One step forward, 5 back. I believe hers is that she doesnt think she can do it, doesnt think she deserves it. One thing that we talked abt at our first FA mtg was that we did so much for her, she never had to learn on her own that she could do it. Any pain with a boyfriend, I couldnt stand it. Unfortunately, at this time I tried to fix it, rather than letting her experience the pain and deal with it. This was all occurring at the same time she began using, and she, behavior-wise, is still 16. I can still here her saying when I asked her back then-why? Because "I realized with Xanax that at school I could see ex-boyfriend with new girlfriend and it didn't hurt". I cant get past sometimes if only I had helped her thru her heartbreak instead of trying to fix it. Just another way I punish myself. Sent using ConductDisorders mobile app [/QUOTE]
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