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<blockquote data-quote="Malika" data-source="post: 462240" data-attributes="member: 11227"><p>Great thread!</p><p>What's helped?</p><p>1) Getting information and insight (well, a certain amount, anyway <img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite1" alt=":)" title="Smile :)" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":)" /> )</p><p>2) Reading books and the net: forewarned is forearmed</p><p>3) Readjusting my view of what is "normal" </p><p>4) Starting to care less what other people think</p><p>5) (Important) Noticing and validating my difficult child's (many) qualities</p><p>6) (Sorry, should have mentioned sooner <img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite1" alt=":)" title="Smile :)" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":)" /> ) Coming to the forum - also part of no. 1, of course</p><p>7) Humour. With difficult child and in my own approach to him.</p><p>8) Throwing all the models and templates out of the window and discovery what works best empirically</p><p>9) Giving lots of praise (to difficult child but we should get it also <img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite1" alt=":)" title="Smile :)" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":)" />)</p><p>10) Giving time to my own interests and relaxations</p><p>11) Early bedtime <img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite1" alt=":)" title="Smile :)" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":)" /></p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Malika, post: 462240, member: 11227"] Great thread! What's helped? 1) Getting information and insight (well, a certain amount, anyway :) ) 2) Reading books and the net: forewarned is forearmed 3) Readjusting my view of what is "normal" 4) Starting to care less what other people think 5) (Important) Noticing and validating my difficult child's (many) qualities 6) (Sorry, should have mentioned sooner :) ) Coming to the forum - also part of no. 1, of course 7) Humour. With difficult child and in my own approach to him. 8) Throwing all the models and templates out of the window and discovery what works best empirically 9) Giving lots of praise (to difficult child but we should get it also :)) 10) Giving time to my own interests and relaxations 11) Early bedtime :) [/QUOTE]
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