Yeah but you haven't looked up - anti-social.....or borderline tendencies.........or psychopath.......(not trying to be the zeppelin of good news here) AND they now have a test (and actual test) that they can do to determine if your child / husband / wife / sister /brother / self IS actually a psychopath. They had the story on History chanel not too long ago about an book/movie author that writes horror stories. His writing is so macabre that the man who created this genetic test had him in mind when he decided to find a person to test it out on - that was a.) IN society b.) all around successful c.) MORBID with sick thoughts but never acted on them to the best of the testers knowledge. The results? The author/movie maker WAS infact a psychopath. Not someone that had psychopathic tendencies - he actually had the genetic MARKER that make him psychopathic. The entire show was absolutely fascinating. The scariest part? The personality traits that this man had are a lot of the traits that are similar to many MOMMA BEARS.......(go figure) lol.
As far as trying to determine if your son is or has a predisposition for being a psychopath? Your doctor would have to see things in your child AND in YOUR or your HUSBANDS BEHAVIOR and ENVIRONMENT that he felt were NOT going to change, because while a psychopath is born - I believe wholeheartedly that you can make one against his will with a condusive environment and repeated bad influences and behaviors. Monkey see monkey doo - monkey live in a really bad jungle and never gets therapy, gets taught better behaviors, is taught right from wrong. I say this BECAUSE......my son has a genetic pre-disposition to be a psychopath. His father is a psychopath/sociopath (natural born killer), BiPolar (BP), and has borderline tendencies, is a drug abuser, alcoholic, womanizer, animal abuser, woman beater - and has absolutely NO conscience whatsoever. THe things my son was taught by him from birth until 4 years old were absolutely sick. The things my son was TOLD were absolutely sick to even tell an adult. HOWEVER we put my son into therapy, and counseling, and Residential Treatment Center (RTC)'s and group homes, and got educated, and went to therapy ourselves and did our level best to turn things around for ourselves and him -(myself and fiance) and left the environment and trained Dude and helped him re-learn and re-map his brain. TOday he still has anger issues, and lots of problems, but he's doing better. Had he NOT gotten the intervention he did? He'd be just like his biodad. OR worse. And worse you absolutely would NOT want living three states away from you - trust me on that. We were told my son was a budding anti-social at the age of ten. That was after six years of intense therapy. We just worked harder -
If you've ever lived with one? You would never crack a joke about it. My x makes Manson look like Bambi.