Ok so i know that eventually my son will call us and want something from us. I am thinking of vwrious scenarios so i can be clear and prepared in my head.... I would appreciate any feedback or any major possibilities i am missing. 1. He is arrested. I will not pick him up or bail him out. I might consult his lawyer because if he is arrestd he is probably looking at serious jail time....i suspect if this happes no lawyer will keep him out of jail. 2. He wants to go back to Tx center where he has been at but has no money for ticket. I a thinkig i would offer him a bus ticket since it looks to me like he blew off the plane ticket he had just throwing our money away. 3. We are still willing to pay rent at a reputable sober house but we need to check it out and talk to them. 4. We are willing to pay for food but we will not give him money directly, has to go through someone at sober house. 5. He will call needing money for something and it will sound reasonable....answer is no. We will only pay for rent andmoney thru 3rd parry. 6. girlfriend dumps him and he calls and is feeling suicidal. This actually seems likely at this point. My sense is i cant walk away at this moment. Any others?