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When a terrific DEX turns into a difficult child x 10 (I'm gobsmacked)
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<blockquote data-quote="Mattsmom277" data-source="post: 382065" data-attributes="member: 4264"><p>Thank you all for listening (reading) and understanding and your words. </p><p></p><p>I'm not feeling at all nice Wiped Out. I'm simply not wanting my daughter to keep hurting and I don't think hating him will benefit her, bottom line is, he's her dad. I guess I dont' fee my loathing should be shoved into her psyche, Know what I mean?? But inside? I'm livid, I don't understand him, don't like him, don't respect him, I want to tell him what I really think of him, I regret a lot regarding him. Glad I have my daughter because of him, wish it could have been immaculate conception or something.</p><p></p><p>As for the boy thing, OMG. I'm still kind of really that it was never at all about easy child feeling tom boyi'sh. I knew he was influencing and encouraging, I didn't know it was all about him. Disturbing doesn't cover it!! Those days are done as of the other night. Never will that touch her life again. She has a right to be herself and that apparently was never her. My cousin who is like a sister, lets just say he doesn't want to run into her in the near future. I may have to keep zipped for easy child's sake. She doesn't need to. I am so glad to have some people close in my life who understand and are supportive (including this board!).</p><p></p><p>easy child had a dream last night about court papers, and I was laughing when they came and said oh no they aren't for me to go to court they are for you easy child. She said it was horrible. Dreams don't always mean anything but I did anyhow reassure her that I wouldn't ever be heinous like that and that while we're putting this situation into a context that makes it livable for her and I, it is not funny and I am far from impressed with our situation. She seemed reassured so perhaps the dream really was a fear in her that maybe it was no big deal to me and her feelings weren't that important. Nothing could be further from the truth.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Mattsmom277, post: 382065, member: 4264"] Thank you all for listening (reading) and understanding and your words. I'm not feeling at all nice Wiped Out. I'm simply not wanting my daughter to keep hurting and I don't think hating him will benefit her, bottom line is, he's her dad. I guess I dont' fee my loathing should be shoved into her psyche, Know what I mean?? But inside? I'm livid, I don't understand him, don't like him, don't respect him, I want to tell him what I really think of him, I regret a lot regarding him. Glad I have my daughter because of him, wish it could have been immaculate conception or something. As for the boy thing, OMG. I'm still kind of really that it was never at all about easy child feeling tom boyi'sh. I knew he was influencing and encouraging, I didn't know it was all about him. Disturbing doesn't cover it!! Those days are done as of the other night. Never will that touch her life again. She has a right to be herself and that apparently was never her. My cousin who is like a sister, lets just say he doesn't want to run into her in the near future. I may have to keep zipped for easy child's sake. She doesn't need to. I am so glad to have some people close in my life who understand and are supportive (including this board!). easy child had a dream last night about court papers, and I was laughing when they came and said oh no they aren't for me to go to court they are for you easy child. She said it was horrible. Dreams don't always mean anything but I did anyhow reassure her that I wouldn't ever be heinous like that and that while we're putting this situation into a context that makes it livable for her and I, it is not funny and I am far from impressed with our situation. She seemed reassured so perhaps the dream really was a fear in her that maybe it was no big deal to me and her feelings weren't that important. Nothing could be further from the truth. [/QUOTE]
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