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<blockquote data-quote="susiestar" data-source="post: 259199" data-attributes="member: 1233"><p>I don't know of a time frame that you should do or be done iwth this by. I do know that until very recently you were not yet fully grieving husband. So it may take more time to reach that "should" time. Sort of like a preemie baby takes more than 9 mos to reach those 9 mo milestones, Know what I mean???</p><p></p><p>If you think it will help you, then go and work on clearing stuff out. Maybe, at first, just work for ten minutes a day. Or even hire someone to work with you in there. </p><p></p><p>It WILL be hard if kt goes to treatment. But you will make it through all that, and if it is what kt needs, well, she needs it. If it is too much, then take that time to go visit relatives, at least at first.</p><p></p><p>Recently your doctor told you something had to give. How will adding another big job that "should" be done help you find time to relax and deal with stress? Woudl it be easier to just hire someone to go in and box up everything and put it in the garage or storage so you can sort it later? Seems like that would be cheaper than paying for a long term (or even short term) stay at a hospital.</p><p></p><p>I am so sorry you ahve to go through this. But please ask one of the in-home workers to recommend someone to pack all that stuff up for now. With the clothes maybe pick a few items wm and kt and you would like and pay that person to take it all to Salvation Army? It would lessen the stuff you have to store.</p><p></p><p>Sending some very gentle hugs to you.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="susiestar, post: 259199, member: 1233"] I don't know of a time frame that you should do or be done iwth this by. I do know that until very recently you were not yet fully grieving husband. So it may take more time to reach that "should" time. Sort of like a preemie baby takes more than 9 mos to reach those 9 mo milestones, Know what I mean??? If you think it will help you, then go and work on clearing stuff out. Maybe, at first, just work for ten minutes a day. Or even hire someone to work with you in there. It WILL be hard if kt goes to treatment. But you will make it through all that, and if it is what kt needs, well, she needs it. If it is too much, then take that time to go visit relatives, at least at first. Recently your doctor told you something had to give. How will adding another big job that "should" be done help you find time to relax and deal with stress? Woudl it be easier to just hire someone to go in and box up everything and put it in the garage or storage so you can sort it later? Seems like that would be cheaper than paying for a long term (or even short term) stay at a hospital. I am so sorry you ahve to go through this. But please ask one of the in-home workers to recommend someone to pack all that stuff up for now. With the clothes maybe pick a few items wm and kt and you would like and pay that person to take it all to Salvation Army? It would lessen the stuff you have to store. Sending some very gentle hugs to you. [/QUOTE]
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