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<blockquote data-quote="CCRidr2" data-source="post: 41664" data-attributes="member: 3714"><p>Timer Lady I agree with you. I also take a time out to calm down because our difficult child is a manipulator also. He thinks that if he gives us hugs that it makes his behavior ok or that punishment will be ended. He will yell his "I hate you's" and "You're the worst mother I've ever had's". (I am the only mother he remembers, bio mother left when he was 18 months never to be heard from again) and then he thinks that he can hug and it will take all the hurt away but it doesn't. I know he doesn't mean it and it's the easiest thing for him to do to hurt me but I just keep telling him that I love him and I'M NOT GOING ANYWHERE! We all have to do the best we can while still staying "sane" ourselves.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="CCRidr2, post: 41664, member: 3714"] Timer Lady I agree with you. I also take a time out to calm down because our difficult child is a manipulator also. He thinks that if he gives us hugs that it makes his behavior ok or that punishment will be ended. He will yell his "I hate you's" and "You're the worst mother I've ever had's". (I am the only mother he remembers, bio mother left when he was 18 months never to be heard from again) and then he thinks that he can hug and it will take all the hurt away but it doesn't. I know he doesn't mean it and it's the easiest thing for him to do to hurt me but I just keep telling him that I love him and I'M NOT GOING ANYWHERE! We all have to do the best we can while still staying "sane" ourselves. [/QUOTE]
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