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<blockquote data-quote="Lioness" data-source="post: 653655" data-attributes="member: 18827"><p>Just looked at your quote for the day; Don't listen to what people say, watch what they do. Today this rings so true for me. My Difficult Child of 28 years! The one with Borderline (BPD) is back to playing games again. Its a month since my birthday, and 3 weeks since Mothers day and she said she wanted to take me out for the day with my grand daughter. I was so excited, I am still waiting...... I should have fool tattooed on my forehead. Is it too much to want to spend time with your daughter and just talk, laugh like normal people do?! I have come to the point that I am seriously thinking of selling my house, and leaving the country. I have been looking at property in Greece and France, if I can put physical distance between us, then it won't feel so painful. I know this is drastic, but I just want to run and not look back. If she stays this way, what sort of relationship will she have with her own daughter when she grows up. My own mother cut me off 25 years ago, she stopped talking to her own parents too! I want to break this cycle but can't do this on my own. I feel like there must be something wrong with me too. I am the common link in all of this. I am very disheartened.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Lioness, post: 653655, member: 18827"] Just looked at your quote for the day; Don't listen to what people say, watch what they do. Today this rings so true for me. My Difficult Child of 28 years! The one with Borderline (BPD) is back to playing games again. Its a month since my birthday, and 3 weeks since Mothers day and she said she wanted to take me out for the day with my grand daughter. I was so excited, I am still waiting...... I should have fool tattooed on my forehead. Is it too much to want to spend time with your daughter and just talk, laugh like normal people do?! I have come to the point that I am seriously thinking of selling my house, and leaving the country. I have been looking at property in Greece and France, if I can put physical distance between us, then it won't feel so painful. I know this is drastic, but I just want to run and not look back. If she stays this way, what sort of relationship will she have with her own daughter when she grows up. My own mother cut me off 25 years ago, she stopped talking to her own parents too! I want to break this cycle but can't do this on my own. I feel like there must be something wrong with me too. I am the common link in all of this. I am very disheartened. [/QUOTE]
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