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<blockquote data-quote="Scent of Cedar *" data-source="post: 653686" data-attributes="member: 17461"><p>Ha!</p><p></p><p>True.</p><p></p><p>***</p><p></p><p>It's like everything we thought mattered about our upbringings and about what happened with our children...all at once, we see all that differently. And we feel so free, and that is when we realize how much of who we were was developed to cushion them from their own truths.</p><p></p><p>Or maybe, to cushion ourselves from their truths.</p><p></p><p>We made so much of it look normal, when what it was, was bone crazy. To this day, I am all about whether a thing looks and feels "right". Which comes down to "is everyone happy".</p><p></p><p>That is not normal.</p><p></p><p>Normal people just walk in and accept what is.</p><p></p><p>I have always to try to include everyone and be sure everyone is happy. </p><p></p><p>Lately, I am changing that.</p><p></p><p>Well, okay.</p><p></p><p>I am looking at that.</p><p></p><p>Cedar</p><p></p><p>One day I will post here in a very mean way. And then, we will know I am normal, at last.</p><p></p><p>F you, mom.</p><p></p><p><img src="/community/styles/default/xenforo/smilies/2012/mcsmiley1.gif" class="smilie" loading="lazy" alt=":mcsmiley1:" title="mcsmiley1 :mcsmiley1:" data-shortname=":mcsmiley1:" /></p><p></p><p>Oops.</p><p></p><p>Pardon me.</p><p></p><p>:O)</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Scent of Cedar *, post: 653686, member: 17461"] Ha! True. *** It's like everything we thought mattered about our upbringings and about what happened with our children...all at once, we see all that differently. And we feel so free, and that is when we realize how much of who we were was developed to cushion them from their own truths. Or maybe, to cushion ourselves from their truths. We made so much of it look normal, when what it was, was bone crazy. To this day, I am all about whether a thing looks and feels "right". Which comes down to "is everyone happy". That is not normal. Normal people just walk in and accept what is. I have always to try to include everyone and be sure everyone is happy. Lately, I am changing that. Well, okay. I am looking at that. Cedar One day I will post here in a very mean way. And then, we will know I am normal, at last. F you, mom. :mcsmiley1: Oops. Pardon me. :O) [/QUOTE]
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