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<blockquote data-quote="Tanya M" data-source="post: 640890" data-attributes="member: 18516"><p>It's amazing how peaceful life can be then WHAM, there's some kind of contact. About a month ago my difficult child posted to one of his several FB accounts that while he was in jail I never wrote to him even thought he begged. All of this is a lie as I did write numerous letters to him while he was in jail just as I have done every time he's been in jail. Of course I didn't see the post because he unfriended me from that FB account. My sister shared it with me. How convenient for him to lie about me when I can't defend myself.</p><p>Then a couple of weeks ago I had a phone message from him. It went something like this: "Hi mom it's me. I don't want anything from you but I need to you to call Aunt ##### and have her call me on this number because I need antibiotics real bad. My leg is <img src="/community/styles/default/xenforo/smilies/2012/censored2.gif" class="smilie" loading="lazy" alt=":censored2:" title="censored2 :censored2:" data-shortname=":censored2:" /> messed up and infected and if I don't get some antibiotics they'll probably have to <img src="/community/styles/default/xenforo/smilies/2012/censored2.gif" class="smilie" loading="lazy" alt=":censored2:" title="censored2 :censored2:" data-shortname=":censored2:" /> cut it off. So anyway, have her call me"</p><p>That was it, no Hi mom how are you, how's dad. What really got me is that he said he didn't want anything from me yet he's asking a favor. I sent him a text back and told him that I was sorry to hear about his leg and that Aunt ##### is a retired nurse and does not have access to antibiotics and that if your leg is so bad you need to go to an ER. I didn't get a response. Not quite a week later he posted something on his other FB account that I can still see that he went for a 6 mile hike in the mountains. Guess his leg wasn't as bad as he claimed.</p><p>These kinds of episodes used to bother me for months but thankfully I am able to let it go usually within a day.</p><p>Oh the freedom of being detached.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Tanya M, post: 640890, member: 18516"] It's amazing how peaceful life can be then WHAM, there's some kind of contact. About a month ago my difficult child posted to one of his several FB accounts that while he was in jail I never wrote to him even thought he begged. All of this is a lie as I did write numerous letters to him while he was in jail just as I have done every time he's been in jail. Of course I didn't see the post because he unfriended me from that FB account. My sister shared it with me. How convenient for him to lie about me when I can't defend myself. Then a couple of weeks ago I had a phone message from him. It went something like this: "Hi mom it's me. I don't want anything from you but I need to you to call Aunt ##### and have her call me on this number because I need antibiotics real bad. My leg is :censored2: messed up and infected and if I don't get some antibiotics they'll probably have to :censored2: cut it off. So anyway, have her call me" That was it, no Hi mom how are you, how's dad. What really got me is that he said he didn't want anything from me yet he's asking a favor. I sent him a text back and told him that I was sorry to hear about his leg and that Aunt ##### is a retired nurse and does not have access to antibiotics and that if your leg is so bad you need to go to an ER. I didn't get a response. Not quite a week later he posted something on his other FB account that I can still see that he went for a 6 mile hike in the mountains. Guess his leg wasn't as bad as he claimed. These kinds of episodes used to bother me for months but thankfully I am able to let it go usually within a day. Oh the freedom of being detached. [/QUOTE]
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