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When you just cant have a relationship with somebody
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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 711909" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>So am I <img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite1" alt=":)" title="Smile :)" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":)" /></p><p></p><p>But in my situation the person takes everything I say and attaches his/her own intention to it and tells me even what I can/should put on the persons FB page and even called me to ream me about a private joke I posted on the persons timeline. I was truly surprised I had done anything "wrong." Nobody else would have known what it meant. It wasnt a porn video...lol. This happens all the time. Everything is pointed out to me as saying something wrong...be it a text, a conversation, anything. And sometimes words are mafe up, but usually just picked on carefully. It is tiring.</p><p></p><p>I feel that this person doesnt know me at all and never will or can understand me. It is honestly hard to not feel stressed each time we interact. So I am doing what is best for me for once. I have never done this before to anyone.</p><p></p><p>Blocked from my phone and all family members phones as well (the ones on our plan) because this person uses another family member to get point across and they dont like it at all. Blocked from FB, which I barely use anyway. Blocked from email.</p><p></p><p>I feel relief that I no longer have to feel squeamish about the next contact. I dont fight with people anymore at all, except with this person so I feel it is best for both of us. This has been going on forever. I just want my peaceful life and loving family of choice. Selfish? Yes!! Tired of putting everyone elses needs first.</p><p>Thank you, wiserone.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 711909, member: 1550"] So am I :) But in my situation the person takes everything I say and attaches his/her own intention to it and tells me even what I can/should put on the persons FB page and even called me to ream me about a private joke I posted on the persons timeline. I was truly surprised I had done anything "wrong." Nobody else would have known what it meant. It wasnt a porn video...lol. This happens all the time. Everything is pointed out to me as saying something wrong...be it a text, a conversation, anything. And sometimes words are mafe up, but usually just picked on carefully. It is tiring. I feel that this person doesnt know me at all and never will or can understand me. It is honestly hard to not feel stressed each time we interact. So I am doing what is best for me for once. I have never done this before to anyone. Blocked from my phone and all family members phones as well (the ones on our plan) because this person uses another family member to get point across and they dont like it at all. Blocked from FB, which I barely use anyway. Blocked from email. I feel relief that I no longer have to feel squeamish about the next contact. I dont fight with people anymore at all, except with this person so I feel it is best for both of us. This has been going on forever. I just want my peaceful life and loving family of choice. Selfish? Yes!! Tired of putting everyone elses needs first. Thank you, wiserone. [/QUOTE]
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