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<blockquote data-quote="New Leaf" data-source="post: 684949" data-attributes="member: 19522"><p>Hi KC welcome back..... Sorry for your need to be here. This is a really old thread, it may be why others haven't responded......you may want to start a new thread.....</p><p>I look at it this way. I am not choosing my kids over one another, just choosing where I focus. My two have disrespected me, stole my valuables and my time, lied to me. I still love them, but will no longer put my energy there. </p><p>After years of being played, and used, it was enough.</p><p>Then there is the reality of all of the focus being on the chaos and drama, trying to stop the train wreck while the other kids were doing well, and not getting the <em>attention they deserved. </em></p><p><em></em></p><p>Obstacles were mostly me being able to wrap my head and heart around finding a completely different pattern of response. It is hard too, when the choices lead to homelessness, or in my case, my two went no contact. That actually gave me some breathing time.</p><p></p><p>I hope you stay with us and keep posting. This site has helped me very much. I will look for your thread, if you decide to start one.</p><p>You are not alone.</p><p>(((Hugs)))</p><p>Leafy</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="New Leaf, post: 684949, member: 19522"] Hi KC welcome back..... Sorry for your need to be here. This is a really old thread, it may be why others haven't responded......you may want to start a new thread..... I look at it this way. I am not choosing my kids over one another, just choosing where I focus. My two have disrespected me, stole my valuables and my time, lied to me. I still love them, but will no longer put my energy there. After years of being played, and used, it was enough. Then there is the reality of all of the focus being on the chaos and drama, trying to stop the train wreck while the other kids were doing well, and not getting the [I]attention they deserved. [/I] Obstacles were mostly me being able to wrap my head and heart around finding a completely different pattern of response. It is hard too, when the choices lead to homelessness, or in my case, my two went no contact. That actually gave me some breathing time. I hope you stay with us and keep posting. This site has helped me very much. I will look for your thread, if you decide to start one. You are not alone. (((Hugs))) Leafy [/QUOTE]
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