difficult child didn't show up at her arraignment. She called 3 hours after she was supposed to be there in tears saying she'd mixed up the days and what could she do to fix this. I'm so tired. I'd be more inclined to help if she'd get out of the living situation she's in and get herself back into counseling. husband's first response to anything she says is "I assume you don't believe a word of what she said." (she's not his bio child) His difficult child's have been pains in the on good days, we found a text message that they've been helping their mom try to set us up for something. husband sends a fax to the boys counselor before their appointment this week telling them how wonderful things have been this week and because oldest has not followed through on plan with his mom yet husband is convinced difficult child has decided not to follow through at all. I tried to ask husband to stop assuming my daughter is worthless and his sons are saints. His response is I'm imagining the whole thing. How did I end up in this loony bin?