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<blockquote data-quote="SeekingStrength" data-source="post: 621011" data-attributes="member: 17635"><p>Hi JFK,</p><p></p><p>I am so sorry you are living this horror, another in a long string, I am guessing. My gfg32 is also antisocial. He has not been labeled as such by a professional. My daughter, a psychological examiner, suggested husband and I take a look at the criteria a couple years ago. Yes, it is definitely gfg32. Like your son, he has blown several "second chances."</p><p></p><p>husband and i were in the pits of despair a few weeks ago. We are doing much better right now, chiefly from advice of members here. We are still in anger. They tell me it will pass, but right now we welcome it because it has helped us see alllll the stuff he has done and recognizing it as difficult child's choices. We sit around at night and say "remember when difficult child....". Therapeutic and we may never run out of stories, lol.</p><p></p><p>Many years ago, a $500 check to our church went missing from our kitchen counter. I called difficult child at work (a job from he was fired soon after). Guess what, he knew nothing about the check. The craziest part is there was a message on our house phone a few days later about a checking account he was setting up. WHY DID husband AND I NOT MAKE THE CONNECTION???? We filed a police report, but nothing came of it. There was no endorsement signature on the check, nor the "teller's stamp".</p><p></p><p>We worry about him, we love him fiercely. But, we do not like him. at all.</p><p></p><p>There comes a time when you say "enough. we are not helping him and have not for a VERY long time". It hurts less to step away than staying on the darn hamster wheel.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="SeekingStrength, post: 621011, member: 17635"] Hi JFK, I am so sorry you are living this horror, another in a long string, I am guessing. My gfg32 is also antisocial. He has not been labeled as such by a professional. My daughter, a psychological examiner, suggested husband and I take a look at the criteria a couple years ago. Yes, it is definitely gfg32. Like your son, he has blown several "second chances." husband and i were in the pits of despair a few weeks ago. We are doing much better right now, chiefly from advice of members here. We are still in anger. They tell me it will pass, but right now we welcome it because it has helped us see alllll the stuff he has done and recognizing it as difficult child's choices. We sit around at night and say "remember when difficult child....". Therapeutic and we may never run out of stories, lol. Many years ago, a $500 check to our church went missing from our kitchen counter. I called difficult child at work (a job from he was fired soon after). Guess what, he knew nothing about the check. The craziest part is there was a message on our house phone a few days later about a checking account he was setting up. WHY DID husband AND I NOT MAKE THE CONNECTION???? We filed a police report, but nothing came of it. There was no endorsement signature on the check, nor the "teller's stamp". We worry about him, we love him fiercely. But, we do not like him. at all. There comes a time when you say "enough. we are not helping him and have not for a VERY long time". It hurts less to step away than staying on the darn hamster wheel. [/QUOTE]
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