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<blockquote data-quote="Hound dog" data-source="post: 464660" data-attributes="member: 84"><p>Welcome to the board. <img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite1" alt=":)" title="Smile :)" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":)" /></p><p></p><p>You've no reason to be ashamed of anything. It's not <strong>you</strong> that is doing anything wrong. </p><p></p><p>You tried to help your son growing up the best you could. We can only do the best we can with what we know at the time. We're all only human. </p><p></p><p>If it were my child? I'd contact the police and press charges for the missing money. I'd have a formal eviction written up with a firm date on it. Any repercussions by the child would be met with police or hospitalization or both. </p><p></p><p>It may sound harsh, but he's 20, an adult and plenty old enough to be out on his own. As an adult child living at home, it's a privilege, not a right. He either follows <strong>your</strong> rules, or he leaves. He doesn't have to like it, it's your home. </p><p></p><p>I would say if you fear him, you probably have good reason even if you can't come of with a long list of whys. There are plenty of ways to threaten without ever voicing a threat.</p><p></p><p>You have every right to live in your home in peace. </p><p></p><p>I'm glad you found us, sorry that you needed to.</p><p></p><p>((hugs))</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Hound dog, post: 464660, member: 84"] Welcome to the board. :) You've no reason to be ashamed of anything. It's not [B]you[/B] that is doing anything wrong. You tried to help your son growing up the best you could. We can only do the best we can with what we know at the time. We're all only human. If it were my child? I'd contact the police and press charges for the missing money. I'd have a formal eviction written up with a firm date on it. Any repercussions by the child would be met with police or hospitalization or both. It may sound harsh, but he's 20, an adult and plenty old enough to be out on his own. As an adult child living at home, it's a privilege, not a right. He either follows [B]your[/B] rules, or he leaves. He doesn't have to like it, it's your home. I would say if you fear him, you probably have good reason even if you can't come of with a long list of whys. There are plenty of ways to threaten without ever voicing a threat. You have every right to live in your home in peace. I'm glad you found us, sorry that you needed to. ((hugs)) [/QUOTE]
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