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<blockquote data-quote="cindygirl" data-source="post: 305879" data-attributes="member: 1744"><p>Well this has been a terrible week for her attendance at school or coming home. She has attended 4 of her 15 classes and has not showed up at the office for the math course that they are offering for her spare. They told her at the beginning that if she was blowing classes that they are going to throw her out. I again reminded her this morning that if she is not attending school or her courses that they are going to ask her to leave. The judge told her that one of her bail conditions was perfect attendance in school and good grades. Not running after her boyfriend and trying to make him love her. This week she went to "school" and then came home after class (boyfriend supposedly had to work) everything was going fine until she went out to just find a cigarette. She didn't take her purse or her coat, she didn't say she was going out so when I saw her purse on the chair I thought she was just upstairs watching tv. When husband came home he asked where she was I told him upstairs. When I checked she was not there. So I waited for her to come home. Her boyfriend called at 10:30 and he had not heard from her. By 3:00 am I was frantic. He called again at 8 am and I told him I hadn't heard from her. At 9 he called to say that she had called him from somebodys home and she was covered in scratches and had no idea what had happened to her after she smoked some weed with them. He told her to go to the transit station downtown and I went to get her. I looked everywhere but there was no sign of her. Then he called to say that she was at the downtown mall and go and get her there. So I took the transit train down to the mall and looked for her there. When I finally found her she was covered in mud and scratches and had 7 hours missing from her memory. She was missing 1 sock and her undergaments and had no idea whos house she was in. She had met an old boyfriend who invited her to come "chill" with a few of his friends. She sort of remembers him dragging her to a bush and sort of remembers him trying to have sex with her. Whatever was in the weed made her foggy and it was like "a dream". She wouldn't go to the police, lost her ipod, her current boyfriend tried to break up with her. So she made an appointment with her drug counsellor that day (doubt she kept the appointment). But she always dissasociates it as the bad behaviours take over. She hasn't been home by curfew 1 day this week but they finally assigned her a probation officer today. Maybe now things will start moving.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="cindygirl, post: 305879, member: 1744"] Well this has been a terrible week for her attendance at school or coming home. She has attended 4 of her 15 classes and has not showed up at the office for the math course that they are offering for her spare. They told her at the beginning that if she was blowing classes that they are going to throw her out. I again reminded her this morning that if she is not attending school or her courses that they are going to ask her to leave. The judge told her that one of her bail conditions was perfect attendance in school and good grades. Not running after her boyfriend and trying to make him love her. This week she went to "school" and then came home after class (boyfriend supposedly had to work) everything was going fine until she went out to just find a cigarette. She didn't take her purse or her coat, she didn't say she was going out so when I saw her purse on the chair I thought she was just upstairs watching tv. When husband came home he asked where she was I told him upstairs. When I checked she was not there. So I waited for her to come home. Her boyfriend called at 10:30 and he had not heard from her. By 3:00 am I was frantic. He called again at 8 am and I told him I hadn't heard from her. At 9 he called to say that she had called him from somebodys home and she was covered in scratches and had no idea what had happened to her after she smoked some weed with them. He told her to go to the transit station downtown and I went to get her. I looked everywhere but there was no sign of her. Then he called to say that she was at the downtown mall and go and get her there. So I took the transit train down to the mall and looked for her there. When I finally found her she was covered in mud and scratches and had 7 hours missing from her memory. She was missing 1 sock and her undergaments and had no idea whos house she was in. She had met an old boyfriend who invited her to come "chill" with a few of his friends. She sort of remembers him dragging her to a bush and sort of remembers him trying to have sex with her. Whatever was in the weed made her foggy and it was like "a dream". She wouldn't go to the police, lost her ipod, her current boyfriend tried to break up with her. So she made an appointment with her drug counsellor that day (doubt she kept the appointment). But she always dissasociates it as the bad behaviours take over. She hasn't been home by curfew 1 day this week but they finally assigned her a probation officer today. Maybe now things will start moving. [/QUOTE]
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