nvts
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Hi! I know I've been among the missing for the last few weeks, so if no one wants to talk to me for being a flat leaver, I understand!
difficult child 1 has been on a tear for the last month or so and we've been hurtling downhill trying to keep up.
Latest medications: 54 mgs. Concerta, took him off the Strattera, and now 2 mgs. of Abilify (started on Saturday - I'm a nervous wreck!).
He's been suspended off the bus twice for threats (gonna get a gun and kill, well, anyone) and language. Since Sept. he's been riding the bus with his brother to a different school and then dropped off at his. They tried this last year and it was a nightmare. To date, I've only been able to get his pm run changed, and they're dragging their feet on the am run. In the meantime, he has a 1 hour time limit on his IEP and he's on the bus 1.5 hours each way!
I'm a type 1 diabetic, so putting him on the Abilify was a drastic measure (some kids with a family history can develop diabetes - side effect). My husband didn't want to give it to him until we sat down with the school as well as the therapuetic side. Once they got him to see that difficult child 1 HAS to be "sad" 24/7, he finally bought into trying the medications. When we sat difficult child 1 down and talked to him to let him know that we were going to try it, so that we could "lenghtn" the fuse that runs to the explosives that make him blow up before he can make a better choice. The medications would let him work toward being a happy child again.
He got tears in his eyes and asked to leave the room. I told him that he had to stay and let us know what was wrong. He looked me right in the eye and said "you mean once there was a time when I was a happy child?"
I feel like such a toad.
Thanks for letting me vent.
Is there anything I should be on the look-out for regarding the combo of medications?
I want to crawl under a rock...
Beth
difficult child 1 has been on a tear for the last month or so and we've been hurtling downhill trying to keep up.
Latest medications: 54 mgs. Concerta, took him off the Strattera, and now 2 mgs. of Abilify (started on Saturday - I'm a nervous wreck!).
He's been suspended off the bus twice for threats (gonna get a gun and kill, well, anyone) and language. Since Sept. he's been riding the bus with his brother to a different school and then dropped off at his. They tried this last year and it was a nightmare. To date, I've only been able to get his pm run changed, and they're dragging their feet on the am run. In the meantime, he has a 1 hour time limit on his IEP and he's on the bus 1.5 hours each way!
I'm a type 1 diabetic, so putting him on the Abilify was a drastic measure (some kids with a family history can develop diabetes - side effect). My husband didn't want to give it to him until we sat down with the school as well as the therapuetic side. Once they got him to see that difficult child 1 HAS to be "sad" 24/7, he finally bought into trying the medications. When we sat difficult child 1 down and talked to him to let him know that we were going to try it, so that we could "lenghtn" the fuse that runs to the explosives that make him blow up before he can make a better choice. The medications would let him work toward being a happy child again.
He got tears in his eyes and asked to leave the room. I told him that he had to stay and let us know what was wrong. He looked me right in the eye and said "you mean once there was a time when I was a happy child?"
I feel like such a toad.
Thanks for letting me vent.
Is there anything I should be on the look-out for regarding the combo of medications?
I want to crawl under a rock...
Beth