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<blockquote data-quote="susiestar" data-source="post: 369527" data-attributes="member: 1233"><p>It depends on the cost of storage if you don't end up in a new place for a while. If you end up in a shelter can you take your furniture at all? Have you priced storage units? Why not sell the more expensive furniture, move difficult child to a twin bed and you keep his queen bed? I would not put him on better bedding than you have for a couple of reasons. The biggest one is that he is NOT holding up his end of the responsibilities. He already thinks he is somehow better than you and is entitled to better than you have. If you go to a twin and keep him in a queen it will foster this in his mind. It is something that will always, in his mind, justify that he is better than you and should have better things than you have. Maybe at some point in the future you could move him back up to a larger bed when his behavior and attitude have EARNED that luxury. </p><p></p><p>Other than that, how badly do you need the $$ must be weighed against how hard it will be to keep paying the storage fees for what you keep but don't have a place to use the items. Sorry I don't have more to suggest.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="susiestar, post: 369527, member: 1233"] It depends on the cost of storage if you don't end up in a new place for a while. If you end up in a shelter can you take your furniture at all? Have you priced storage units? Why not sell the more expensive furniture, move difficult child to a twin bed and you keep his queen bed? I would not put him on better bedding than you have for a couple of reasons. The biggest one is that he is NOT holding up his end of the responsibilities. He already thinks he is somehow better than you and is entitled to better than you have. If you go to a twin and keep him in a queen it will foster this in his mind. It is something that will always, in his mind, justify that he is better than you and should have better things than you have. Maybe at some point in the future you could move him back up to a larger bed when his behavior and attitude have EARNED that luxury. Other than that, how badly do you need the $$ must be weighed against how hard it will be to keep paying the storage fees for what you keep but don't have a place to use the items. Sorry I don't have more to suggest. [/QUOTE]
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