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<blockquote data-quote="DammitJanet" data-source="post: 347903" data-attributes="member: 1514"><p>K...they are not looking at you as the victim. They are looking at you as the parent of a kid coming out of Department of Juvenile Justice. They are not built to combine the two. Dont keep rocking that boat. It isnt going to help. If you want to deal with what your son did to you, deal with it privately in therapy. </p><p></p><p>Im going to give you this advice one more time. Go with the flow quietly and nicely. Do what they tell you to do. Be agreeable. Smile and nod. Go to whatever appointments they set up. If the mentors are set up for whatever days...let them in and talk small talk. Be polite. </p><p></p><p>Just go with it. The more you act like you are normal, beaver cleaver family, the sooner they will be out of your lives. They will soon decide they dont need to monitor you guys and move on to bigger and badder clients. PO's have a ton of cases to worry about. If he decides he doesnt have to put forth much effort into your case, he will move on. That is your goal.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="DammitJanet, post: 347903, member: 1514"] K...they are not looking at you as the victim. They are looking at you as the parent of a kid coming out of Department of Juvenile Justice. They are not built to combine the two. Dont keep rocking that boat. It isnt going to help. If you want to deal with what your son did to you, deal with it privately in therapy. Im going to give you this advice one more time. Go with the flow quietly and nicely. Do what they tell you to do. Be agreeable. Smile and nod. Go to whatever appointments they set up. If the mentors are set up for whatever days...let them in and talk small talk. Be polite. Just go with it. The more you act like you are normal, beaver cleaver family, the sooner they will be out of your lives. They will soon decide they dont need to monitor you guys and move on to bigger and badder clients. PO's have a ton of cases to worry about. If he decides he doesnt have to put forth much effort into your case, he will move on. That is your goal. [/QUOTE]
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