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<blockquote data-quote="DaisyFace" data-source="post: 343521" data-attributes="member: 6546"><p>Mog--</p><p> </p><p>Why is it that you are torn? Has husband been demanding that you accompany him? Does husband <em>not</em> want you to be with difficult child? Do you <em>not</em> want to be with one of them and are feeling guilty about it?</p><p> </p><p>My guess is that you <em>prefer</em> to go to court to support husband--but you are feeling guilty because you feel you SHOULD go to court to support difficult child.</p><p> </p><p>On the one hand--husband is an adult and can handle himself while difficult child is a minor who legally, may need a parent present.</p><p> </p><p>On the other hand--which of them is going to be more appreciative of the fact that you came? Which is going to be more disappointed? Which is going to be angry or upset regardless?</p><p> </p><p>If I knew that someone was going to treat me like dirt for trying to stand by their side, I probably wouldn't want to go either.</p><p> </p><p>And if someone made me feel as if it was very important for me to be with them during a stressful time, I would absolutely want to be there for them.</p><p> </p><p>So what is the situation exactly? Who is pulling your heartstrings which direction?</p><p> </p><p>--DaisyFace</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="DaisyFace, post: 343521, member: 6546"] Mog-- Why is it that you are torn? Has husband been demanding that you accompany him? Does husband [I]not[/I] want you to be with difficult child? Do you [I]not[/I] want to be with one of them and are feeling guilty about it? My guess is that you [I]prefer[/I] to go to court to support husband--but you are feeling guilty because you feel you SHOULD go to court to support difficult child. On the one hand--husband is an adult and can handle himself while difficult child is a minor who legally, may need a parent present. On the other hand--which of them is going to be more appreciative of the fact that you came? Which is going to be more disappointed? Which is going to be angry or upset regardless? If I knew that someone was going to treat me like dirt for trying to stand by their side, I probably wouldn't want to go either. And if someone made me feel as if it was very important for me to be with them during a stressful time, I would absolutely want to be there for them. So what is the situation exactly? Who is pulling your heartstrings which direction? --DaisyFace [/QUOTE]
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