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<blockquote data-quote="Mom2oddson" data-source="post: 360711" data-attributes="member: 65"><p>When difficult child-A moved back in a year ago, husband and I made an aggreement that it was HIS job to take on difficult child-A. I'd been the one and only one doing if for years and I am done. husband has been gone for 28 weeks. And he's had all sorts of ideas/rules he wants for difficult child-A, but I refuse to be the "front-line" guy anymore. Told husband he can deal with it when he gets home. Well, that will be this afternoon. husband can set all the rules he wants. I'll let husband deal with the anger and flak from an anger difficult child-A. husband is big, strong and tough enough to deal with difficult child-A if he goes off on a rant. </p><p></p><p>Since I took the back-seat on the "in-your-face" dealing with difficult child-A and since difficult child-S moved out, I really need my anxiety medications. It's been worth it over-all. difficult child-A tends to use me when he's using...only showing up when I'm out of the house. </p><p></p><p>Now, difficult child-A will be in for a shock, especially since it is husband that is setting and enforcing rules for a change. husband has decided that difficult child-A will not use us. If you aren't sleeping at our house at night, you don't get to come into the house when everyone is gone. And since difficult child-A is almost 20, if he wants to live at our house, he will be getting his GED or he moves out. ...See why I didn't want to enforce any of these rules while husband was on the other side of the US???</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Mom2oddson, post: 360711, member: 65"] When difficult child-A moved back in a year ago, husband and I made an aggreement that it was HIS job to take on difficult child-A. I'd been the one and only one doing if for years and I am done. husband has been gone for 28 weeks. And he's had all sorts of ideas/rules he wants for difficult child-A, but I refuse to be the "front-line" guy anymore. Told husband he can deal with it when he gets home. Well, that will be this afternoon. husband can set all the rules he wants. I'll let husband deal with the anger and flak from an anger difficult child-A. husband is big, strong and tough enough to deal with difficult child-A if he goes off on a rant. Since I took the back-seat on the "in-your-face" dealing with difficult child-A and since difficult child-S moved out, I really need my anxiety medications. It's been worth it over-all. difficult child-A tends to use me when he's using...only showing up when I'm out of the house. Now, difficult child-A will be in for a shock, especially since it is husband that is setting and enforcing rules for a change. husband has decided that difficult child-A will not use us. If you aren't sleeping at our house at night, you don't get to come into the house when everyone is gone. And since difficult child-A is almost 20, if he wants to live at our house, he will be getting his GED or he moves out. ...See why I didn't want to enforce any of these rules while husband was on the other side of the US??? [/QUOTE]
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