Is it because we respond back? It often puzzles me that certain parents get tons of responses and others barely get any. I get a lot of them, but I do respond back. I just want to help the parents who need support and maybe are not getting as much of it as others. I try hard to respond to those who don't seem to be getting much feedback. Can we help them? I think Merris needs some big hugs. Her post tore at my heart. (Merris, hope you're not mad that I said this).