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<blockquote data-quote="Scent of Cedar II" data-source="post: 118165" data-attributes="member: 4391"><p>I think part of the reason they do it is shame.</p><p></p><p>It just comes out as anger at the person before whom they are most ashamed.</p><p></p><p>Someone told me once that it has to do with the kids venting to the person they feel most safe with.</p><p></p><p>It helped me to learn to refuse the emotions that were destroying me, that were confusing and ultimately, making me weaker.</p><p></p><p>I am so sorry, Wisckaren.</p><p></p><p>None of this is easy.</p><p></p><p>But it will be a little easier for you now, because you have all of us.</p><p></p><p>We made it through.</p><p></p><p>You will, too.</p><p></p><p>Barbara</p><p></p><p> :warrior:</p><p></p><p>P.S. When I first came here? I had to banish myself to the detachment site all the time!</p><p></p><p>That's why I have it at the bottom of my posts.</p><p></p><p>It was where I learned healing was possible.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Scent of Cedar II, post: 118165, member: 4391"] I think part of the reason they do it is shame. It just comes out as anger at the person before whom they are most ashamed. Someone told me once that it has to do with the kids venting to the person they feel most safe with. It helped me to learn to refuse the emotions that were destroying me, that were confusing and ultimately, making me weaker. I am so sorry, Wisckaren. None of this is easy. But it will be a little easier for you now, because you have all of us. We made it through. You will, too. Barbara [img]:warrior:[/img] P.S. When I first came here? I had to banish myself to the detachment site all the time! That's why I have it at the bottom of my posts. It was where I learned healing was possible. [/QUOTE]
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