difficult child has gotten ridiculous with his carrying on that everyone hates him and everyone does things to him on purpose! In baseball if he strikes out or gets thrown out by an outfielder, the umpire is an idiot and made a bad call. If it happens again in the same game, the umpires hate him! Then difficult child procedes to rant and rave and carry on in the dugout till even his teammates tell him to stop. Then difficult child comes to me crying that no one on the team likes him! Honestly, I don't think any of them do because difficult child is so difficult! This is on any sports team he plays on. If difficult child is being mean or fighting with 4 yr. old little brother, the little guy "always" started it first and "made" difficult child be mean to 4 yr old. Now I know my 4 yr old can be an annoying little brother but come on...everytime? If anyone,anywhere,does anything to difficult child accidently...kick a ball and it hits him, throw a ball and it hits him, bangs into him, etc... according to difficult child, it is done on purpose and he carries on about it and feels he must retaliate by doing the same thing back! When I try to explain that duh, accidents happen, of course he can not see it that way. What is up with this and why does he think this way? Can anyone give me some insight into his thought process? I'd love any advice you can offer! Thanks!! Oh, if I didn't mention this...absolutely nothing that happens or goes wrong is difficult child's fault. He takes no blame for anything.