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<blockquote data-quote="mstang67chic" data-source="post: 351356" data-attributes="member: 2459"><p>Wow....well first of all, good for her for doing what's right for her, however passive agressive it is. LOL</p><p></p><p>My first thought, even if HE was the one who broke it off, is that he's still trying to control things. What kinds of things is he saying in the texts and messages? If he's saying he's sorry and that he wants to try again, then she really needs to answer him at least once so there has been a clear and concise communication that she's not interested. Then if he continues, maybe she could lodge a complaint (but not press charges) and the police could communicate that it's time for him to stop. And obviously if THAT doesn't do it, she would need to take further steps.</p><p></p><p>Then again, like you said, what IS she doing? I'm not saying at all that she's bringing this on herself but is she saying anything to mutual friends that would encourage him if it got back to him or send mixed signals?</p><p></p><p>Beyond that? No clue. It's been waaaay too long since I have been involved in a break up and I was never sure how to handle things either so I don't know how much help I'm being. Hugs to her and you though.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="mstang67chic, post: 351356, member: 2459"] Wow....well first of all, good for her for doing what's right for her, however passive agressive it is. LOL My first thought, even if HE was the one who broke it off, is that he's still trying to control things. What kinds of things is he saying in the texts and messages? If he's saying he's sorry and that he wants to try again, then she really needs to answer him at least once so there has been a clear and concise communication that she's not interested. Then if he continues, maybe she could lodge a complaint (but not press charges) and the police could communicate that it's time for him to stop. And obviously if THAT doesn't do it, she would need to take further steps. Then again, like you said, what IS she doing? I'm not saying at all that she's bringing this on herself but is she saying anything to mutual friends that would encourage him if it got back to him or send mixed signals? Beyond that? No clue. It's been waaaay too long since I have been involved in a break up and I was never sure how to handle things either so I don't know how much help I'm being. Hugs to her and you though. [/QUOTE]
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