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Why the Therapist Thinks it's Mom's Fault...
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<blockquote data-quote="aeroeng" data-source="post: 250770" data-attributes="member: 6557"><p><span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman'"><span style="font-size: 12px"><span style="color: #000000">First of all I believe the best news in the world would be that it is my fault, and that I am a bad parent. This would be wonderful because if the issue was me, then it would be something which I could change. Unfortunately it is not. </span></span></span></p><p> </p><p><span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman'"><span style="font-size: 12px"><span style="color: #000000">For me, I believe several things help:</span></span></span></p><p> </p><p><span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman'"><span style="font-size: 12px"><span style="color: #000000">- Many of the professionals I deal with have seen the child's tense, red face which is about to explode and understand that even though he can be an angle that anger is there.</span></span></span></p><p> </p><p><span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman'"><span style="font-size: 12px"><span style="color: #000000">- When the conversation does tend to point towards me, I take the attitude. "Wonderful. Something I can work on! Give me more!. Well yes I tried that this happened ... Tried that too... he did .... Let me show you what happens when we do that ... </span></span></span></p><p> </p><p><span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman'"><span style="font-size: 12px"><span style="color: #000000">Does not take long for them to give up.</span></span></span></p><p> </p><p><span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman'"><span style="font-size: 12px"><span style="color: #000000">- Start explaining of what things I have learned. Explain the explosive child instructions ect. (I'm and engineer. We tend to get very detailed and can be quite annoying.) </span></span></span></p><p> </p><p><span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman'"><span style="font-size: 12px"><span style="color: #000000">- Some times I walk away and find a different professional</span></span></span></p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="aeroeng, post: 250770, member: 6557"] [FONT=Times New Roman][SIZE=3][COLOR=#000000]First of all I believe the best news in the world would be that it is my fault, and that I am a bad parent. This would be wonderful because if the issue was me, then it would be something which I could change. Unfortunately it is not. [/COLOR][/SIZE][/FONT] [FONT=Times New Roman][SIZE=3][COLOR=#000000] [/COLOR][/SIZE][/FONT] [FONT=Times New Roman][SIZE=3][COLOR=#000000]For me, I believe several things help:[/COLOR][/SIZE][/FONT] [FONT=Times New Roman][SIZE=3][COLOR=#000000] [/COLOR][/SIZE][/FONT] [FONT=Times New Roman][SIZE=3][COLOR=#000000]- Many of the professionals I deal with have seen the child's tense, red face which is about to explode and understand that even though he can be an angle that anger is there.[/COLOR][/SIZE][/FONT] [FONT=Times New Roman][SIZE=3][COLOR=#000000] [/COLOR][/SIZE][/FONT] [FONT=Times New Roman][SIZE=3][COLOR=#000000]- When the conversation does tend to point towards me, I take the attitude. "Wonderful. Something I can work on! Give me more!. Well yes I tried that this happened ... Tried that too... he did .... Let me show you what happens when we do that ... [/COLOR][/SIZE][/FONT] [FONT=Times New Roman][SIZE=3][COLOR=#000000] [/COLOR][/SIZE][/FONT] [FONT=Times New Roman][SIZE=3][COLOR=#000000]Does not take long for them to give up.[/COLOR][/SIZE][/FONT] [FONT=Times New Roman][SIZE=3][COLOR=#000000] [/COLOR][/SIZE][/FONT] [FONT=Times New Roman][SIZE=3][COLOR=#000000]- Start explaining of what things I have learned. Explain the explosive child instructions ect. (I'm and engineer. We tend to get very detailed and can be quite annoying.) [/COLOR][/SIZE][/FONT] [FONT=Times New Roman][SIZE=3][COLOR=#000000] [/COLOR][/SIZE][/FONT] [FONT=Times New Roman][SIZE=3][COLOR=#000000]- Some times I walk away and find a different professional[/COLOR][/SIZE][/FONT] [/QUOTE]
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