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Why was it I felt like I was the one being treated like I'm on probation?
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<blockquote data-quote="DDD" data-source="post: 391247" data-attributes="member: 35"><p>I do understand what you're saying and in part what you're feeling. In telephone conversations with easy child/difficult child's PO I often get chapped off. You're right the parents get residual controling vibes. on the other hand you are in a new region with a new PO and I think you need to hope for the best while you stay prepared for the worst. A card in the door isn't terribly intrusive and reasonably is he was in the neighborhood it is possible that he decided to just see if you were home to get the one/on/one over for you both. He's not responsible (and probably doesn't know about) for your past experience. Perhaps it's a bit like a second marriage where the wounds haven't healed from the first. I think it's important that you not begin therelationship with undue prejudice. He may be a wonderful person (yes, we had one of those) and most importantly he is going to be the ongoing resource for you and difficult child. Think toward the future and try to squash the issues from the past. My fingers are</p><p>crossed that he actualy is as he seemed during your initial contact. DDD</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="DDD, post: 391247, member: 35"] I do understand what you're saying and in part what you're feeling. In telephone conversations with easy child/difficult child's PO I often get chapped off. You're right the parents get residual controling vibes. on the other hand you are in a new region with a new PO and I think you need to hope for the best while you stay prepared for the worst. A card in the door isn't terribly intrusive and reasonably is he was in the neighborhood it is possible that he decided to just see if you were home to get the one/on/one over for you both. He's not responsible (and probably doesn't know about) for your past experience. Perhaps it's a bit like a second marriage where the wounds haven't healed from the first. I think it's important that you not begin therelationship with undue prejudice. He may be a wonderful person (yes, we had one of those) and most importantly he is going to be the ongoing resource for you and difficult child. Think toward the future and try to squash the issues from the past. My fingers are crossed that he actualy is as he seemed during your initial contact. DDD [/QUOTE]
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