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<blockquote data-quote="timer lady" data-source="post: 110898" data-attributes="member: 393"><p>Can I just offer a different perspective? Whatever went wrong in the past in my humble opinion is a non issue. You cannot change it or your family. They have their own reasons, however misguided, for their response to your request for help. It's sad when family doesn't pitch in & help one another but that is the way it is right now.</p><p></p><p>You must start looking forward; it's not easy. Being a single parent is the hardest job in the world & I applaud you in doing what you are doing.</p><p></p><p>Now is the time to start knocking on all those doors that you have knocked on before. It's time to start asking for help once again - perhaps with a different, more positive attitude. With a plan of attack in mind, heck written out, to show those people, agencies who are there to help you get back on your feet. </p><p></p><p>I do know that agencies of this nature appreciate a fresh positive attitude when you walk in their doors. You are in a tough situation & you can acknowledge that. You can also explain what you have done & what you plan to do. With their help with daycare you can take the next job offered, start savings for an apartment & get back on your feet.</p><p></p><p>Do you see where I'm going with this? </p><p></p><p>Good luck in your search - I'll be keeping you & yours in my thoughts for a quick resolution.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="timer lady, post: 110898, member: 393"] Can I just offer a different perspective? Whatever went wrong in the past in my humble opinion is a non issue. You cannot change it or your family. They have their own reasons, however misguided, for their response to your request for help. It's sad when family doesn't pitch in & help one another but that is the way it is right now. You must start looking forward; it's not easy. Being a single parent is the hardest job in the world & I applaud you in doing what you are doing. Now is the time to start knocking on all those doors that you have knocked on before. It's time to start asking for help once again - perhaps with a different, more positive attitude. With a plan of attack in mind, heck written out, to show those people, agencies who are there to help you get back on your feet. I do know that agencies of this nature appreciate a fresh positive attitude when you walk in their doors. You are in a tough situation & you can acknowledge that. You can also explain what you have done & what you plan to do. With their help with daycare you can take the next job offered, start savings for an apartment & get back on your feet. Do you see where I'm going with this? Good luck in your search - I'll be keeping you & yours in my thoughts for a quick resolution. [/QUOTE]
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