Can anyone explain to me why/how this would be a response to EVERYTHING I ask of or from H? No matter what, if I ask him to take out the garbage or if I say we are having pasta for dinner, or I need to go grocery shopping or I'm worried about _________. Doesn't seem to matter, he ALWAYS says, 'Why?' in a totally bland voice. Not snotty or questioning, but as if he's passive or bored. All comments welcome because I can't figure it out. My therapist says he's angry about something or resentful and this is his subconscious way of irritating me. What do you think?