Tomorrow is difficult child's IEP-I am very nervous. We stopped the last one because people we wanted there had to leave early. Since that meeting difficult child has been out of school and in school suspended. We also found out his BIP hasn't been followed this year We also found out that part of it was accidently deleted We also found out spec.ed teacher has poked difficult child in the chest a couple of times to get his attention. Apparently she also yells which in the BIP it says not to. They have invited a person from the district to be there. I really don't feel like we're asking for anything unreasonable but apparently they do. Wish us luck-we tried to get an advocate but no one ever returned our calls-I guess if need be we'll just stop this meeting too.