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<blockquote data-quote="susiestar" data-source="post: 375232" data-attributes="member: 1233"><p>What an AWESOME meeting!!! The credit goes totally to you, of course. I am sure that school didn't just tell him that you were an adversarial and difficult parent - the school likely made you sound totally unbalanced and nuts and out of touch with reality, which is why your child has problems, according to the school. Of course their documentation would try to support that. One of my high school/college friends is an attorney and has stopped representing our local SD because they pull stuff like this with almost every parent who doesn't know the laws.</p><p> </p><p>You are doing an amazing job with all of this!!!! mother in law's comment was right on target also - and I am sure it shamed both the advocate and attorney at least a little bit!</p><p> </p><p>Be sure to go and check the IEP about 6 weeks after you sign it. I know it may sound paranoid, but I have had it happen and heard of it happening frequently that someone at the school goes into the IEP and adds/deletes things after you sign it. In my case they added pages to Wiz' 6th grade IEP and took out almost everything that would have helped him keep in touch with reality - they even added time on a pokemon website as a reward for him - when he was to have NO contact with computers OR pokemon because he was so delusional about being able to catch a real, live pokemon if he could just get to Japan. They tried to forge my initials, but the sp ed teacher who did this didn't pay enough attention to how I write my initials. I put the symbol for my middlle initial AFTER the initial for my last name (middle name is Star, so I draw a specific type of star instead of an S) and have been doing this since my sophomore year in high school. When I took PROOF of this to the school superintendent I ended up with a whole lot of concessions if I promised not to sue them. </p><p> </p><p>Had I not had to take the IEP to the psychiatric hospital I might never have known. Just don't forget to check - esp after all the koi the principal tried last year. </p><p> </p><p>I am sure the the attorney had a LOT to tell the school about record keeping and the law after the meeting. I wouldn't be surprised if he tells the board of ed about this and has the principal at least spoken to about it. The school is WIDE open for a lawsuit thanks to the actions of the principal and school employees. Esp with those half days all last year. </p><p> </p><p> </p><p> </p><p>You</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="susiestar, post: 375232, member: 1233"] What an AWESOME meeting!!! The credit goes totally to you, of course. I am sure that school didn't just tell him that you were an adversarial and difficult parent - the school likely made you sound totally unbalanced and nuts and out of touch with reality, which is why your child has problems, according to the school. Of course their documentation would try to support that. One of my high school/college friends is an attorney and has stopped representing our local SD because they pull stuff like this with almost every parent who doesn't know the laws. You are doing an amazing job with all of this!!!! mother in law's comment was right on target also - and I am sure it shamed both the advocate and attorney at least a little bit! Be sure to go and check the IEP about 6 weeks after you sign it. I know it may sound paranoid, but I have had it happen and heard of it happening frequently that someone at the school goes into the IEP and adds/deletes things after you sign it. In my case they added pages to Wiz' 6th grade IEP and took out almost everything that would have helped him keep in touch with reality - they even added time on a pokemon website as a reward for him - when he was to have NO contact with computers OR pokemon because he was so delusional about being able to catch a real, live pokemon if he could just get to Japan. They tried to forge my initials, but the sp ed teacher who did this didn't pay enough attention to how I write my initials. I put the symbol for my middlle initial AFTER the initial for my last name (middle name is Star, so I draw a specific type of star instead of an S) and have been doing this since my sophomore year in high school. When I took PROOF of this to the school superintendent I ended up with a whole lot of concessions if I promised not to sue them. Had I not had to take the IEP to the psychiatric hospital I might never have known. Just don't forget to check - esp after all the koi the principal tried last year. I am sure the the attorney had a LOT to tell the school about record keeping and the law after the meeting. I wouldn't be surprised if he tells the board of ed about this and has the principal at least spoken to about it. The school is WIDE open for a lawsuit thanks to the actions of the principal and school employees. Esp with those half days all last year. You [/QUOTE]
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