Forums
New posts
Search forums
What's new
New posts
New profile posts
Latest activity
Internet Search
Members
Current visitors
New profile posts
Search profile posts
Log in
Register
What's new
Search
Search
Search titles only
By:
New posts
Search forums
Menu
Log in
Register
Install the app
Install
Forums
Parent Support Forums
General Parenting
Wiz
JavaScript is disabled. For a better experience, please enable JavaScript in your browser before proceeding.
You are using an out of date browser. It may not display this or other websites correctly.
You should upgrade or use an
alternative browser
.
Reply to thread
Message
<blockquote data-quote="susiestar" data-source="post: 585006" data-attributes="member: 1233"><p>Thank you, all of you. Most of the time I am so proud of him, and then he will blindside me this way. I will say that in some ways he is his uncle's nephew. They both have a gift for sitting there seemingly happy about everything and then they say something very quietly that is designed to hurt/upset you. Of course is you respond to it, they don't know what you are talking about or why you 'want' to ruin everyone's good time. </p><p></p><p>This does reinforce my determination to NEVER live under the same roof that he does. </p><p></p><p>Some of the stories he has come to actually believe never fail to amuse me. The idiot actually talked himself into believing that when we had him baptised he screamed and thrashed because the holy water sizzled and burned when it was put on his forehead. </p><p></p><p>Reality? He smiled and cooed and was totally awake and thrilled to be there and to have the water on his head. I have witnesses too! </p><p></p><p>husband and I often will say "and the holy water burned when he was baptised, didn't it?" as our shorthand for "can you believe this ridiculous story he is claiming to have survived?". </p><p></p><p>I hope he can someday realize how far fetched many of his beliefs about husband and I are. Recently he told me that the only reason we medicated him was because I was mad at my mom because she kept saying that he didn't have a problem but I did, that I was making up the things he supposedly did, and that I lied about all of it to all of his doctors. Gee, we spent thousands of dollars on your docs and medications and therapies all because I was mad at my mom? Good to know. I guess all the testing and all those doctors only showed problems because they were also angry at my mother over something.</p><p></p><p>Now I know where I get my superpowers (the ones that make me the cause of all the bad in the world). My mom passed them down just like the short gene. She must be some kind of powerful, because we lived in a different state and she didn't even meet or know the names of most of them. </p><p></p><p>I am going to move on from this now. I will stay on guard around him, but won't let myself dwell on it any more. He will go about his life, and maybe someday he will have kids and realize that the best you can do has to be enough because it is all you have. I sure won't go out of my way to hurt him, but I won't push myself into his life. When he is ready to come to me, I will be here. Otherwse? I have other kids and a life and a husband. More than enough to keep me busy. And lots of cross stitch to make me happy!</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="susiestar, post: 585006, member: 1233"] Thank you, all of you. Most of the time I am so proud of him, and then he will blindside me this way. I will say that in some ways he is his uncle's nephew. They both have a gift for sitting there seemingly happy about everything and then they say something very quietly that is designed to hurt/upset you. Of course is you respond to it, they don't know what you are talking about or why you 'want' to ruin everyone's good time. This does reinforce my determination to NEVER live under the same roof that he does. Some of the stories he has come to actually believe never fail to amuse me. The idiot actually talked himself into believing that when we had him baptised he screamed and thrashed because the holy water sizzled and burned when it was put on his forehead. Reality? He smiled and cooed and was totally awake and thrilled to be there and to have the water on his head. I have witnesses too! husband and I often will say "and the holy water burned when he was baptised, didn't it?" as our shorthand for "can you believe this ridiculous story he is claiming to have survived?". I hope he can someday realize how far fetched many of his beliefs about husband and I are. Recently he told me that the only reason we medicated him was because I was mad at my mom because she kept saying that he didn't have a problem but I did, that I was making up the things he supposedly did, and that I lied about all of it to all of his doctors. Gee, we spent thousands of dollars on your docs and medications and therapies all because I was mad at my mom? Good to know. I guess all the testing and all those doctors only showed problems because they were also angry at my mother over something. Now I know where I get my superpowers (the ones that make me the cause of all the bad in the world). My mom passed them down just like the short gene. She must be some kind of powerful, because we lived in a different state and she didn't even meet or know the names of most of them. I am going to move on from this now. I will stay on guard around him, but won't let myself dwell on it any more. He will go about his life, and maybe someday he will have kids and realize that the best you can do has to be enough because it is all you have. I sure won't go out of my way to hurt him, but I won't push myself into his life. When he is ready to come to me, I will be here. Otherwse? I have other kids and a life and a husband. More than enough to keep me busy. And lots of cross stitch to make me happy! [/QUOTE]
Insert quotes…
Verification
Post reply
Forums
Parent Support Forums
General Parenting
Wiz
Top