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Work and Germany; Benedictines and Buddhists: Attitude
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<blockquote data-quote="Scent of Cedar *" data-source="post: 673704" data-attributes="member: 17461"><p>I think we are dealing with abandonment issues because we never once saw it coming and were powerless to change it once it did. So, we are popped into childhood coping and defensiveness and rage because the hurt is from two times and not just this time.</p><p></p><p>I think Going's telling us how it is from the personhood of our children, who are in the grip of something they don't understand until it is too late either will help us. Going said something yesterday about everyone believing addiction will not happen to them.</p><p></p><p>But then it does.</p><p></p><p>And it's too late because everything is like a carousel ride you cannot dismount from. Maybe, they only see us when the carousel comes around, like they did when they were little.</p><p></p><p>And they don't want us to know what's happened to them when the carousel turned and we could not see them, and they could not see us.</p><p></p><p>Cedar</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Scent of Cedar *, post: 673704, member: 17461"] I think we are dealing with abandonment issues because we never once saw it coming and were powerless to change it once it did. So, we are popped into childhood coping and defensiveness and rage because the hurt is from two times and not just this time. I think Going's telling us how it is from the personhood of our children, who are in the grip of something they don't understand until it is too late either will help us. Going said something yesterday about everyone believing addiction will not happen to them. But then it does. And it's too late because everything is like a carousel ride you cannot dismount from. Maybe, they only see us when the carousel comes around, like they did when they were little. And they don't want us to know what's happened to them when the carousel turned and we could not see them, and they could not see us. Cedar [/QUOTE]
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