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<blockquote data-quote="klmno" data-source="post: 174370" data-attributes="member: 3699"><p>I haven't read all words of every post, I admit. But based on your starter of the thread- I think you and the boys might be better off if you made your plans and followed through with them accordingly- without S2BX in the picture. There is no need to set yourself or the boys up for any more heartache. If he cared, he would be (and will be) beating down your door. Move on- sorry to be cold about it, but the other threads indicate that you have enough on your plate dealing with these boys and all of you living with your parents. Which, by the way, you would not be dealing with alone if their dad was a big enough man to step up to the plate. So, I suggest not spending any more time trying to accommodate him.</p><p></p><p>I suggest spending your time dealing with the way your boys are dealing with things, and getting your family on your own feet. I know that sounds cold- I'm sorry and I don't mean it as criticism, but I think some part of you is holding out thinking that their dad will "learn his lesson" and jump right in there- personally, I don't think this is going to happen. I think you need to view yourself as a single parent and gather up all the warrier armour you can find. Be as resourceful as you can and find a place for you and your sons to live on your own.</p><p></p><p>I would be shocked if S2BX is going to rise to the occassion at this point.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="klmno, post: 174370, member: 3699"] I haven't read all words of every post, I admit. But based on your starter of the thread- I think you and the boys might be better off if you made your plans and followed through with them accordingly- without S2BX in the picture. There is no need to set yourself or the boys up for any more heartache. If he cared, he would be (and will be) beating down your door. Move on- sorry to be cold about it, but the other threads indicate that you have enough on your plate dealing with these boys and all of you living with your parents. Which, by the way, you would not be dealing with alone if their dad was a big enough man to step up to the plate. So, I suggest not spending any more time trying to accommodate him. I suggest spending your time dealing with the way your boys are dealing with things, and getting your family on your own feet. I know that sounds cold- I'm sorry and I don't mean it as criticism, but I think some part of you is holding out thinking that their dad will "learn his lesson" and jump right in there- personally, I don't think this is going to happen. I think you need to view yourself as a single parent and gather up all the warrier armour you can find. Be as resourceful as you can and find a place for you and your sons to live on your own. I would be shocked if S2BX is going to rise to the occassion at this point. [/QUOTE]
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