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Would you give difficult child a photo?
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<blockquote data-quote="klmno" data-source="post: 325729" data-attributes="member: 3699"><p>I might touch on the subject with difficult child, Shari and see where it leads. When he was very young he was happy getting simple answers to simple questions. When he hit pre-adolescence and asked about it and figured out the blanks in the story, he was devestated and that's when he turned into a difficult child. Odd maybe, but true. The past year or so, he seems to view it all differently and says he wants to do whatever he can to make his father pay CS and anything else to own up to his repsonsibility. I think this comes from getting to know juveniles in trouble legally who have kids and have to pay CS and be involved in their kids' lives. difficult child sees teen boys trying to own up to this and be a part of their kids' lives and now I think he has moved past grief into anger- if these teen boys can do it, his grown father should too. difficult child even told me once that if he had to pay his legal consequences for what he's done wrong, then his father can pay his. Of course, I still see your point- that doesn't mean he wants me bringing up the topic or hitting him with a photo.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="klmno, post: 325729, member: 3699"] I might touch on the subject with difficult child, Shari and see where it leads. When he was very young he was happy getting simple answers to simple questions. When he hit pre-adolescence and asked about it and figured out the blanks in the story, he was devestated and that's when he turned into a difficult child. Odd maybe, but true. The past year or so, he seems to view it all differently and says he wants to do whatever he can to make his father pay CS and anything else to own up to his repsonsibility. I think this comes from getting to know juveniles in trouble legally who have kids and have to pay CS and be involved in their kids' lives. difficult child sees teen boys trying to own up to this and be a part of their kids' lives and now I think he has moved past grief into anger- if these teen boys can do it, his grown father should too. difficult child even told me once that if he had to pay his legal consequences for what he's done wrong, then his father can pay his. Of course, I still see your point- that doesn't mean he wants me bringing up the topic or hitting him with a photo. [/QUOTE]
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