Oh, and argue about it? No way. I just know that whackjob has no job, and DEX does not have a good work history. And that 3 weeks ago, whackjob was at exMIL's tearfully saying her last goodbyes because DEX threw them out, and now they are super-lovey and engaged again. That's what I know first hand.
I saw on FB that she's getting booted out of the house they're in now.
And exMIL says the sheetrock where they live now is full of holes that she or DEX have put there from either hitting the walls, each other, or throwing things, and they are about as stable as a 4 legged table missing 3 legs, and that she has been using public and private assitance to pay their bills (rent, utilities, etc) for quite some time, appealing to churches, etc. And that the place they are renting is beyond their budget, and is half of what friend's house is renting for...
Friend is not a really close friend, but is a friend, and is very nice person. I just dont want to see them get burnt.