yes i gave in and brought difficult child home because it is winter and cold! He got kicked of the place that he and his "girlfriend" was living because SHE is crazy. ------LONG ASS STORY___but now what do i do? difficult child is holding his own emotionally even though husband is being an ASSSSSSSS. difficult child has really been trying but husband wont even pretend to be nice which is pisssssing me off because oldest son is been wayyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy worse -living off the girlfriends parents oh yeah and she is prego. Sorry his girlfriend is a sweetheart but he is a bigger ass-cheating -drinking-wasting their "huh -really her" money -they live her her parents but husband is being an ass to difficult child when he is really trying. I caught husband in another emotional affair with some girl his cousin grew up with that has had a crush on him since they were younger. I found out because I lost my job and the girls that I work with wanted to go for drinks. We went and when I came home I was talking to husband when my phone rang and it was my dad ( I talk to him 3-4 times a day now that I take care of him since my mom died - may she rest in peace- ) well my cell phone died so I picked up the house phone to call him back and there was a lady talking so I said HELLO and she hung up and then the other line in our house hung up. I went to the garage and I aske who were you talking to to and he said nobody I was taking the dogs out to go to the bathroom. I said yeah right and walked in then turned around and went back to the garage and pushed redial and looked at husband and said then who was this! He said he did not know sooooo I said ok then --took his cell phone and dailed the number. "*****" answered and said oh **** did you get busted ----SO I SAID "I DON'T KNOW ----DID HE!!!!!!!) SHE HUNG UP!! So I called back and talked to her and she said that husband is ALWAYS calling -texting and facebooking her to tell her that HE is NOT happy with his wife and his life so then she said that "I " should tell him to loose her number and i said NO you tell him that --so i put her on speaker and she did. So he has been moping around but i logging onto his fb and she was still trying to get him to talk to her behind my back. He saying he does anymore but I dont know to trust him becasue he already messed it up once. I told him not to be mean to difficult child because he is a cheater with me but he still is not being nice to him what do i do?