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You guys told me-- D C always come back--Please advise
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<blockquote data-quote="Echolette" data-source="post: 658755" data-attributes="member: 17269"><p>Seeking,</p><p>You are always thoughtful in your responses, and I'm sure whatever you choose or have chosen will be right. I am with you and the others that 3 AM texts are full on Difficult Child behavior , and do not bode well for a change of heart.</p><p>I agree with a 24 hour or longer pause before responding. That is always always a good thing.</p><p>And..I suggest you resist giving him advice, which engages you in the problem... Just 'that sounds hard. I'm sorry this is happening to you' or something blandly sympathetic and noncommittal.</p><p>And.. I'd bundle up all the correspondence from his know it all girlfriend and send it to her with a big 'no you di int!' On the outside(I personally like to get hostile with the Difficult Child hangers on, especially those who feel it is their place to explain my son to me)</p><p>Hugs, Seeking. You and husband aw doing really really well.</p><p>Echo</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Echolette, post: 658755, member: 17269"] Seeking, You are always thoughtful in your responses, and I'm sure whatever you choose or have chosen will be right. I am with you and the others that 3 AM texts are full on Difficult Child behavior , and do not bode well for a change of heart. I agree with a 24 hour or longer pause before responding. That is always always a good thing. And..I suggest you resist giving him advice, which engages you in the problem... Just 'that sounds hard. I'm sorry this is happening to you' or something blandly sympathetic and noncommittal. And.. I'd bundle up all the correspondence from his know it all girlfriend and send it to her with a big 'no you di int!' On the outside(I personally like to get hostile with the Difficult Child hangers on, especially those who feel it is their place to explain my son to me) Hugs, Seeking. You and husband aw doing really really well. Echo [/QUOTE]
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