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You know, I think PE is exactly where this whole drama with Buck should be
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<blockquote data-quote="DammitJanet" data-source="post: 574883" data-attributes="member: 1514"><p>Well who knows how this is all going to go if Buck doesnt make it in TN. I realize I seem to have conversations at the most odd times of the day but that is when Tony is awake and actually talking to me. Trying to talk to him at night is pointless, he falls asleep on me as soon as his head hits the pillow. </p><p></p><p>I was trying to look up some types of places that I would hope to get Buck into should he end up back here but after reading up on them I am not sure I could actually get him in. They are all for daughter/MR and those diagnosis's have to have been given by age 22. He wont qualify on that alone. I have no idea if I could get him into one for brain damage. I absolutely know he wouldnt agree to a sober living facility because he refuses to say he was ever an addict...or what he actually says he ISNT an addict, he quit on his own. When I point out once an addict, always an addict he just laughs at me and says Im more of an addict than he is even though he abuses his pain pills and I dont. </p><p></p><p>Anyway, Tony actually laughed at me for even considering a supported living facility even if I could find one because "Buck would have to agree to it." I said well exactly what is he going to do if we dont let him in the door? Will he not have to accept the support that we have found for him then? </p><p></p><p>Tony then said that I just dont understand why he does this for Buck and that he really does understand why. I said Tony, I would do this if I did have a sibling and they were continuing to be like this at his age. Then he threw up Billy. I said Tony, if Billy doesnt leave soon, I am going to have to force the issue. I think I am going to have Billy go in the next few weeks and apply for section 8 housing. I think that might be a good way to go. Rent would probably be at least a little bit subsidized in our area especially if his girlfriend came up to live with him. </p><p></p><p>But even though I do complain about Billy he does step up at times. Evidently Mandy has been snitching the money Cory has been giving her to pay some of the bills at the beginning of the month. That may have been a good part of the fight. He found out that his power bill was on cut off and he had given her the money to go pay it at the beginning of the month. He had been doing that every month. Suddenly they got a cut off notice this month. Which means that she didnt pay all of December and then in January she didnt pay it at all so he got hit with the cut off from December which was due on 1/17. He had given her the money to pay what he thought was January's bill the first week of January. She evidently pocketed that money. Cory had to call Billy and ask him to put that Bill on his credit card and Billy did it for him because he didnt want to see Cory and the baby in the dark and the cold. Mandy he couldnt care less. However Cory is broker than broke. </p><p></p><p>Buck would never help anyone else out. In fact I once asked him about all this time when he goes to church and he throws it in our faces, I asked him if he tithes or puts money in the plate each week. He did his idiotic laugh and said oh no, he cant afford to tithe or put money in the plate. I looked at him funny and said you dont put even $5 bucks in the plate each week after all they have done for you? He said no, just going there is enough. I said hmmm, that just doesnt seem right to me. He said well you dont even go to church so you cant say nothing. I said well you dont have to go to church to have a relationship with a higher power. I happen to feel like I am doing good things for people who are in need. I have an ongoing deduction to two charities and I will donate to tragedies when they come along like Hurricane Sandy and things like that. I asked him, did you happen to put change into the Salvation Army kettle when you pass them by? Nope. I said Buck, it sure doesnt sound like you possess the Christian spirit to me.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="DammitJanet, post: 574883, member: 1514"] Well who knows how this is all going to go if Buck doesnt make it in TN. I realize I seem to have conversations at the most odd times of the day but that is when Tony is awake and actually talking to me. Trying to talk to him at night is pointless, he falls asleep on me as soon as his head hits the pillow. I was trying to look up some types of places that I would hope to get Buck into should he end up back here but after reading up on them I am not sure I could actually get him in. They are all for daughter/MR and those diagnosis's have to have been given by age 22. He wont qualify on that alone. I have no idea if I could get him into one for brain damage. I absolutely know he wouldnt agree to a sober living facility because he refuses to say he was ever an addict...or what he actually says he ISNT an addict, he quit on his own. When I point out once an addict, always an addict he just laughs at me and says Im more of an addict than he is even though he abuses his pain pills and I dont. Anyway, Tony actually laughed at me for even considering a supported living facility even if I could find one because "Buck would have to agree to it." I said well exactly what is he going to do if we dont let him in the door? Will he not have to accept the support that we have found for him then? Tony then said that I just dont understand why he does this for Buck and that he really does understand why. I said Tony, I would do this if I did have a sibling and they were continuing to be like this at his age. Then he threw up Billy. I said Tony, if Billy doesnt leave soon, I am going to have to force the issue. I think I am going to have Billy go in the next few weeks and apply for section 8 housing. I think that might be a good way to go. Rent would probably be at least a little bit subsidized in our area especially if his girlfriend came up to live with him. But even though I do complain about Billy he does step up at times. Evidently Mandy has been snitching the money Cory has been giving her to pay some of the bills at the beginning of the month. That may have been a good part of the fight. He found out that his power bill was on cut off and he had given her the money to go pay it at the beginning of the month. He had been doing that every month. Suddenly they got a cut off notice this month. Which means that she didnt pay all of December and then in January she didnt pay it at all so he got hit with the cut off from December which was due on 1/17. He had given her the money to pay what he thought was January's bill the first week of January. She evidently pocketed that money. Cory had to call Billy and ask him to put that Bill on his credit card and Billy did it for him because he didnt want to see Cory and the baby in the dark and the cold. Mandy he couldnt care less. However Cory is broker than broke. Buck would never help anyone else out. In fact I once asked him about all this time when he goes to church and he throws it in our faces, I asked him if he tithes or puts money in the plate each week. He did his idiotic laugh and said oh no, he cant afford to tithe or put money in the plate. I looked at him funny and said you dont put even $5 bucks in the plate each week after all they have done for you? He said no, just going there is enough. I said hmmm, that just doesnt seem right to me. He said well you dont even go to church so you cant say nothing. I said well you dont have to go to church to have a relationship with a higher power. I happen to feel like I am doing good things for people who are in need. I have an ongoing deduction to two charities and I will donate to tragedies when they come along like Hurricane Sandy and things like that. I asked him, did you happen to put change into the Salvation Army kettle when you pass them by? Nope. I said Buck, it sure doesnt sound like you possess the Christian spirit to me. [/QUOTE]
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